Five Common People Myths

1. You can fix people if you send them for coaching or therapy.
2. If you want to make changes in your life, strengthen your weaknesses.
3. To show care and support, make it easier for people.
4. Tough conversations harm relationships.
5. When someone’s personal life is a mess, it doesn’t necessarily affect their work.

Five Truths About People

1. None of us need “fixing.” However, when motivated, coaching or therapy can help develop self-awareness and personal growth.
2. Strengthening weakness is a bad investment of time and energy. Instead, invest in strengthening strengths and delegating weaknesses to someone whose strength is your weakness.
3. You don’t support people by lowering your standards or making it easier for them. You support people by being in their corner in tough times.
4. Tough conversations, if done effectively, will strengthen relationships.
5. Life is one indivisible whole. Any area in your life that is in shambles will impact every area of your life. And improving any area in your life will also improve every area in your life.