Relaxation is Overrated
The past few months I’ve been working through a great online course by Cal Newport and Scott Young titled, “A Life Of Focus.” It’s about getting to what truly matters in your life, pruning the unimportant, and learning to stay focused on what is essential – without distraction. A central theme of the course, which […]
How Do You Spot Entitlement?
I’ve noticed that in the midst of great abundance there is an equal and opposite reaction: entitlement. It seems to be human nature that the more you get, the more you want. I grew up with telephone party lines, with one line for five or six residences. Sometimes you had to wait 1/2 hour to […]
How do you counter entitlement in your culture?
When you see entitlement in the culture where you live or work, there are five steps to counter it: Model the way. Just as you won’t expel darkness with frustration, you won’t drive out entitlement with annoyance. Instead of complaining, be the light. You attract others by being attractive. Stick with the winners. Find the […]
VALUES BASED LEADERSHIP – It’s Not What You Think
After guiding a senior leadership team to helping them identify their values, I proceeded to take them through a process of defining specifically how they would ensure that they would live these values in their leadership, first as an SLT and then throughout the company. Like most organizations, the value of “respect” was up near the top. […]
“Power Corrupts, Ultimate Power Corrupts Ultimately”
I once met a CEO who never promoted anyone until they spent a minimum of six months volunteering in a charitable organization. She understood that when working with volunteers, titles mean nothing. “If you can’t inspire and influence people without a title, there’s no way I’m putting a title in your hands.” Here are six […]
How Do You Know If You Are Drunk On Power?
In 2020, Michelle Gibbings, from LEADERONOMICS, wrote a great article entitled, Four Warning Signs That You Are Drunk On Power. https://lnkd.in/gs5kSAZh. Gibbings lists four warning signs: The leader thinks their rights and needs outweigh those of others and so their decision making is all about what works best for them. The leader stops listening to […]
Find Your Inspired Leadership: The Power Of Your Presence
The ability to inspire separates leaders from bosses. It takes inspired leadership to create an environment where people genuinely care about their work, about each other, and about going the extra mile. Only a few leaders are able to infuse the necessary energy, passion, and connection into their team. The ability to inspire isn’t about […]
How do we acknowledge – and honour – those that have passed on?
Success guru Napoleon Hill teaches that when two or more people blend the energies of their minds in harmony, a sort of “third brain” or powerful “Master Mind” is formed that can recharge their brains, refine their ideas, and provide support and inspiration. He also believed you can form your own “cabinet of invisible counselors” […]
How do we accept that we can’t do it all and prioritize what is truly essential?
I have been supporting a friend through the slow decline of her mother as they withdraw her life support. Dying has a powerful and uncanny way of slowing us down, getting our attention, and awakening us to what truly matters. There is a lot of expectation and confusion about what is truly important in our […]
Every decision we make brings us closer or further away from the life we want.
Do you agree or disagree? If you agree, every decision becomes important, so how do we make the right ones? The central purpose of my work is to help people connect with their true nature and express it consciously in their life and work. I contend that the life we ultimately want is a life […]
